When I told my sons father I was pregnant he left then when my son was 13 months old he came in and wanted to see him I let him he wanted a paternity test done I said OK well it came back that he was the father then he turned around and left now my son is 3 and I haven't heard a word from him can I get him for abandonment ? He doesn't pay his support like he's supposed to so I need to know what I can do any help or advise will be appreciated:mad:

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Originally Posted by skylyn23

when i told my sons father i was pregnant he left then when my son was 13 months old he came in and wanted to see him i let him he wanted a paternity test done i said ok well it came back that he was the father then he turned around and left now my son is 3 and i havent heard a word from him can i get him for abandonment ? he doesnt pay his support like hes supposed to so i need to know what i can do any help or advise will be appreciated:mad:

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Have you filed for child support in the courts. The court will take the child support out of his paycheck. There is also an organization called supportkids.com maybe they can help you. Good luck to you and know that you are not alone.

Yea child support is set up I'm lucky if he pays every month there's times he don't pay