When I told my sons father I was pregnant he left then when my son was 13 months old he came in and wanted to see him I let him he wanted a paternity test done I said OK well it came back that he was the father then he turned around and left now my son is 3 and I haven't heard a word from him can I get him for abandonment ? He doesn't pay his support like he's supposed to so I need to know what I can do any help or advise will be appreciated:mad: