Hello people, I posted a thread before about me being with a guy and I was unsure of whether we were together or not. Well, it turns out that yes, we are finally officially together. Now the problem is that we always end up fighting for stupid reasons and it always seems like it's my fault. It's not that it is but the way he reacts makes me feel like I have to keep apologizing to him when I'm not even sure if I did something wrong. It's screwed up I know but I do like this guy. I wouldn't die for him but I like him. Now, things are better but there is this other guy that I had been trying to get with for the longest time and he finally paid attention to me. I don't believe he has bad intentions but neither does the guy I have now. Now I am torn between the two and I feel such a connection with both, the attraction is unbelievable. The guy I am with now, he's leaving but he told me he'd be willing to come from Boston every weekend to see me. The other guy is not going anywhere and that's what is confusing me. Who should I go for? Or should I just let him leave and stay by myself? Help!

I wouldn't take that apologizing all the time junk. I could understand if you did something wrong but it sounds to me like dude wants to control you by making you feel like you did something wrong all the time. Talk to him. No no just ignor that. Dump his behind and go for the other guy.

Crankiebabie,

Your advice sounds good. Except at the end of it all it has to be her final decision. Relationships a far are hard to deal with and eventually it might fail. Having a chance to be with somebody that is close by sounds more resonable but it does not mean the guy will be any better. This lady needs to take that chance and get to know that person. I wonder if she is willing to do it?