I am writing this question in the hope of getting an answer, I already know what I need to do but I need reassurance. I was in a so-called relationship with this guy who m is gay, I am also gay. We were in a relationship for approximately 6 months or so. We were together almost everyday and then I starting losing focus on other things in my life which included: Family work and other personal relationships. It seems now that this person was only around when I had something or they needed something. Also I have to admit that this person did help me out with several family issues at the time. We would talk about things that were going on in my life and it was hard for me to go home because of the stress and other issues as well. Anyway to make a longer story even longer, I have not physically seen this person in two weeks but they have called a few times during this time. This person new that I was in love with them and felt that they were pulling me down, so they stated that they gave me time to get myself and my life together, this has some truth to it but I believe there are other motives. Anyway I have applied for other jobs and has been accepted to graduate school which I start in January 2008. I felt that I was in love with this person but now I realize that I attatched myself to this person because it was a much needed distraction, I do know that this person cared about me to a point because I wouldn't eat or drink anything and they would make me drink by saying if you loved me you would do this. Do u think that this person cared at all about me, I do know that I don't want to and can't be around this person anymore because they have nothing to offer me, they don't work or have a place of their own, am I making the right decision, I think I am, please help.
