Originally Posted by peggyhill
If you can handle being around her, and you don't have other holiday commitments, I would say go. But, if it will make you depressed, tell them you already promised someone you would come over or something. It's cool that they like you and want you to come over even though you aren't together. Your ex and her family must think you are a good person and really like you. If you do want to get back together with her, it would be nice for you to go. It will give you a chance to spend some time with her. If you want to go, go. If you can't because you have to go to your parents' or something, just tell her that you can't make it, but would like to stop by later to say hi to everyone. Good luck!
