Need a divorse, How do I tell him?
I want to divorce my husband of 5 years. I have never been happy with him, but I guess I thought he would change, he hasn't. He is always in a bad mood and brings everyone down with him. We have two small children and I hate putting them through all the negativity and anger. Our home is never happy when he is there. He is a mean person and is always yelling and cussing at our son and me. I do love him but I don't like him at all. I can't live like this anymore. I have told him I want a divorce several times but he just says he's sorry and pretends everything is fine. He is very intemidating and it is hard to talk to him about things. He makes me feel like everything is my fault and I am the one who tries to do everything to make him happy. I am out of chances for him. I want out, yes I know I said vows, but that is not worth being unhappy for the rest of my life. Please help me to know how to tell him and let him know I mean it and it's not because I'm mean. I have to think about myself and my kids, don't you think? Any advice? Oh and I have no car and no job either, so what am I suppose to do? Please help!!