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  • Nov 16, 2007, 01:27 PM
    skifastr11
    How do I know if I'm over it?
    Are there any guidelines out there as to what signs to look for in terms of recovering from a long relationship? Just got out an almost 2.5 year relationship 2 weeks ago, and I was wondering if people here could tell me how they knew when they were ready for another relationship. I don't want to rebound, because that'll only hurt me more and hurt the other person who doesn't deserve it.
  • Nov 16, 2007, 01:43 PM
    crushedovernover
    You will know when your ready... I just got out of a 3 yr relationship with the mother of my child 4 months ago and I won't be ready for a long time. It is all personal preference.
  • Nov 16, 2007, 02:32 PM
    enigmagnetic
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by skifastr11
    Are there any guidelines out there as to what signs to look for in terms of recovering from a long relationship? Just got out an almost 2.5 year relationship 2 weeks ago, and I was wondering if people here could tell me how they knew when they were ready for another relationship. I don't wanna rebound, because that'll only hurt me more and hurt the other person who doesn't deserve it.

    It will be clear as a sunny day when you are. You'll stop thinking about them. You'll stop wondering where they are. You are more involved with your own life. You will sincerely wish them the best. You will have no anger or longing left. You will wake up look up at the sky one day and say what a great day. It's as certain as the sunrise.

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