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Brassy blonde? If so use a violet toner to get rid of unwanted brassines/yellow tones. You can get from any hair and beauty shop.

That can happen if you dye, bleach, perm your hair too often
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Try using a clarifying shampoo like Neutragena every so often.
Use a toner or shampoo that has blue undertones such as shimmer lights. This will neutralize the orange.
If your hairs PH balance is off try using shampoo with tea tree shampoo
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You didn't mention your current hair color. Brassy hair refers to yellow, red or orange undertones in hair. When hair becomes an unwanted shade, you will need to use a blue, green, red or violet base hair coloring product or toner to cancel out unwanted tones. For instance, if your hair is red, a green-base hair coloring product will counter-act the red tones in your hair. To neutralize the orange tones, opt for a blue base toner. If you're hair is too yellow, you can use a violet based hair color to neutralize the yellow. You will find these hair coloring products at a beauty supply store.