Hi there again,

I'm going through a difficult situation in my relation where my girlfriend is in college and I'm 300 miles away. The wants to have some space to work and figure some things out, so I've not contacted her since she last spoke to me.

She said she would phone yesterday but didn't. Then today when I logged into IM, noticed that she was online. Less than 2 seconds afterwards, she logged off (I had no intension to speak to her). I see photos of her on her Facebook profile where she's gone out and enjoys herself, and keeps her activity on Facebook to normal, but without any pokes etc. to me.

I don't want to be the first to contact, but I just want to know how she's doing, and remind her that I'm there for her. Does anyone have any suggestions?

I was thinking of sending an e-card to remind her, but I'm nervous that she'd just delete it before reading it.

I'd like to stress that we aren't officially on a break or broken up, but I'm totally lost. How long should I wait?

Thanks in advance,
Joe

I wouldn't send her anything. I am sure she knows you are there for her.
Good Luck!