I broke up with my boyfriend about three weeks ago and haven't spoken to him since. I broke it off with him because I was really unhappy with the state of the relationship (even though most of our relationship was really good) and he didn't know what he wanted. He wanted me to wait while he thought about our relationship and if it had a future, but I couldn't do that so I broke it off with him.

Now, I can't help but miss him, in fact it is getting worse instead of better. I feel really empty inside and long just to hear how his life is. A part of me really wants to try things again, or at least just call him. I have a bit of hope inside of me that we can work things out, but I need to know if he feels the same way. I feel that I could move on better if that hope is dead. So, should I contact him to see where he is at, if nothingelse, just to get closure? Or should I keep up with the no contact?

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Originally Posted by heat515

I broke up with my boyfriend about three weeks ago and haven't spoken to him since. I broke it off with him because I was really unhappy with the state of the relationship (even though most of our realtionship was really good) and he didn't know what he wanted. He wanted me to wait while he thought about our relationship and if it had a future, but I couldn't do that so I broke it off with him.

Now, I can't help but miss him, in fact it is getting worse instead of better. I feel really empty inside and long just to hear how his life is. A part of me really wants to try things again, or at least just call him. I have a bit of hope inside of me that we can work things out, but I need to know if he feels the same way. I feel that I could move on better if that hope is dead. So, should I contact him to see where he is at, if nothingelse, just to get closure? Or should I keep up with the no contact?

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Though it is selfish to have one person in a relationship think and say, "I'll get back to you when I think this relationship has potential", I think you should have just taken a little space and see how much you two really need each other. How much you love and miss each other? Now that you've broken it off try calling him and getting his opinion since it is a two person relationship.