[F]me and my boyfriend have been dating awhile now but he left about a month ago because he wants to be a marine. i really do like him and i want to be with him but i can't because hes in south carolina. a lot of people told me it wont last, and long distance relationships dont normally last. and in one letter he said he loves me and he wants me to marry him when he comes back from training but he said i dont have to answer right a way. i want to say yes but there's something telling me not to... i dont know why. i know i love him. what do i do?

If you love him, you will write him every day, it is different a person going to military training than many other long distance relastionships, if anything, he needs you more now than ever.

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Originally Posted by sammyantha2581

[F]me and my boyfriend have been dating awhile now but he left about a month ago because he wants to be a marine. i really do like him and i want to be with him but i can't because hes in south carolina. a lot of people told me it wont last, and long distance relationships dont normally last. and in one letter he said he loves me and he wants me to marry him when he comes back from training but he said i dont have to answer right a way. i want to say yes but there's something telling me not to... i dont know why. i know i love him. what do i do?

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If you truly love him, u'll wait for him no matter how long it takes. As long as he is faithful to u, n you are faithful for him, it will work out between both of you no matter how far far away he is. Right now he needs u, make him happy, write to him as often as possible, I'm sure if he loves u, he'll return to you as soon as he finish and you guys will live hapily ever after... hope for the best.. don't let it end.. u can do this.. n do this if you love him.. he needs u

Best of luck!