Ok. I LOVE my ex boyfriend a lot and it really hurts to hear him say " Don't worry, you'll find a guy too love you" It's like hello, I want you NOT another guy. What are the tips of getting him back? Please help me...

There nothing you can do my dear... my girl of 7 yrs said the samething and its going on 2 1/2 months and I don't think she missing me at all. So I take it one day at a time and let it go? I'm sorry you feel that way and I feel your hurt and pain.. I tell you one thing you will find the right man and he will be better then your ex. And you are going to hear the same old sh*t give it time, don't call or tex him? Let him miss you? Over and over... so you know what f@*k him you work on yourself get all sexy because every girl knows how and have fun finding the right man!

My ex left me and be with another girl soon! After I decided to let him go,I do not call him,text him email him... any more!now he is trying everything to get contact with me, but I rejected!I think he must be thinking about me now! But for me,he is my past!that's all!

That's good to hear how long have it been NC?

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Originally Posted by lonelychick8

Ok. I LOVE my ex boyfriend a lot and it really hurts to hear him say " Don't worry, you'll find a guy too love you" It's like hello, i want you NOT another guy. What are the tips of getting him back? Please help me...

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Hey there,
I'm going through a rough time just like you are. My boyfriend and I were together for 3 years and then about a week or so after our 3 year anniversary he broke up with me. Its really hard not to call and bug him but I have heard that's the best thing to do. Make it look like your busy and don't have any time for him. If it looks like you don't have time for him he might realize what he has done and want you back. Make him wonder what your doing and everything. I'm trying to leave my ex alone. I let him get in contact with me first. I know what your going through but hang in there. Hopefully everything works out for you.

Yeah same with me. I kind of scared this guy away by being honest with my emotions with him. I'm hoping time will heal it all and maybe down the road we can be friends again but I'm not sure if hell agree. All you can do is wait. It shouldn't be forced. It should always be reciprocated.