I broke up with but now I am considering going back
I have been dating a girl for the past 1.5 years. We we had an amazing relationship that I thought would lead us to marriage. This past year we went to 8 weddings. The second to last one hit her hard and she wanted to know where we stood. Problem is I was married for a year after dating that person for 6 years and had only been broken up for 5 months before I met this girl. So I explained that I want to take it slow, build a foundation, and everything will fall into place. It seems like since that fight we fight about every time we meet. The subject of the fights were not always critical, but for some reason we could never see eye to eye, spending hours at a time fighting. She is an extremely smart person and tends to let her mind run with her mouth. I finally couldn't take it and ended it. Two days later I am miserable and think I want her back. I called her, she said the breakup was good for her, she had a self realization, and will change. But she said why change for the next guy when she loves me so much and will change for me.
At the time of the breakup I could only see the negatives, at this time I can see the positives outweighing the negatives, especially if things are different.
I can't figure this out because I love her so much, but I am very nervous to return to the constant fighting.