My boyfriend is 30, I`m 20. We used to have a great sex life, but that has changed. He never wants to have sex and gets angry when I try to innitiate it. Also it used to last 10 minutes or so, and now he usually finishes in 2 min. What happened?

Dear the matter is this that your boy friend now has become mature enough and has lost the real sex power of man... so no more he can provide you satisfaction that your looing for... ur young that's your power of sex is quite good so it better to get married with a guys about 25 years

How long have you been with him for? As a partner being an older age. Has different sex drives. As far as him getting mad or angry when you try to initiate sex, this does not sound right to me. Unless he is having certain male problems and finds them frustrating and embarrassing. Communication is a major glue in a relationship if you can not talk then it will let go further. Get your feeling out in the open and find out what is going on.

Thanks to everyone who has responded. Your advice is greatly appreciated.

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Originally Posted by Jesushelper76

How long have you been with him for? As a partner being an older age. Has different sex drives. As far as him getting mad or angry when you try to initiate sex, this does not sound right to me. Unless he is having certain male problems and finds them frustrating and embarassing. Communication is a major glue in a relationship if you can not talk then it will let go further. Get your feeling out in the open and find out what is going on.

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We have been together a little over a year...

This is great advise.