Hi,my b/f and I have known each other for over 7 yrs, and moved in together 2 years ago. He is american, me canadian. He left the end of June to visit family there , and to care for a sick friend. I miss him dearly, he has called me several times, but does not mention when he is coming home. When do you see him coming home to me if at all?

Shimmer

Why do you not address the question of when he is coming home? See how he responds to that.

Long distance relationships are stressful and very heart wrenching at times. I would ask him how he feels?

You are a wonderful person and please know that you are cared for. Let me know what you decide to do?

Joe

Hi,
I am not a psychic, don't pretend to be.
But, this is something that you have to do for yourself. Ask him when he calls.
Ask him when he is coming back; be honest with him, and maybe he will give you an answer. But, he may not know, if his friend is critically ill, or has an illness that will take time to improve.
If you two really love each other, then separation for awhile may not change anything between you. I do know that it is difficult, and I do sincerely wish you the best.

ASk him what his plans are ? How about you moving down to be with him?

If you say job, family, home, then what are you putting more value in?

After 7 years you should have a deep enough relatinship where you both can be honest and talk about what is going on.

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Originally Posted by Jesushelper76

Why do you not address the question of when he is coming home? See how he responds to that.

Long distance relationships are stressful and very heart wrenching at times. I would ask him how he feels?

You are a wonderful person and please know that you are cared for. Let me know what you decide to do?

Joe

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Dear Joe,
Thank you for your response. Do you see my b/f coming home before christmas? I know he is staying for thanksgiving, I'm a libra born oct 3/61, he is a capricorn, born jan 18/61. We love each other very much, he is visiting friends and family and I cannot get ahold of him unless he calls me. What do you think, home by xmas??
Thanks, Shimmer

I, like some the experts do not pretend to be a phychic. I can only guess like everybody else. One thing that did catch my attention is that You said you do not have a way of getting intouch with him. That sounds kind of strange to me. Only if he calls you? You should be able to get intouch with him as well. Please rely on your own personal instincts. What does your instincts tell you. I do not think so about your question about Christmas. That is my opinion. Please address some of your questions next time he calls. Love and peace with you always.

Joe