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  • Nov 8, 2007, 01:36 PM
    kiraknight88
    is this guy shy or not interested
    this guy knows I like him- a third party told him. I've never caught him looking at me and he doesn't try to initiate conversation. He's never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. There was a lot of drama around this whole thing- basically his friends (whom are extremely immature) tried to play matchmaker when they found out I like him and after a night when we got a bit drunk and flirted (he def flirted with me), nudging him on and calling him oblivious. They had good intentions but it backfired. He told his friends he doesn’t like me. So he doesn't like me then right?
    I'm kind of surprised he doesn't cause after that night he left me 2 voicemails saying "Hope u got back to your room OK, Ill IM you tomorrow" and he did (he was sober doing this and has never done it before) his friends never pressured him into doing that (he never told his friends he did that.) They said he didn’t mean anything by it. I don't know I've been told I'm prettier than the past girls he's liked. I have had a lot of guys (albeit the wrong type) like me. (he doesn't know this though) I like him cause he's a great person and seems like he wouldn’t go for a girl for sex.

    The day he found out that I knew he doesn’t like me back he said hi randomly a few times but I don’t think that means anything. He always says hi to me in passing, but he usually did before. He def. looks at me differently, though I think its just awkwardness. If he liked me he'd try to be closer to me right, even if he was confused/skittish about it? Its been awhile, so I'm thinking he doesn’t.
  • Nov 8, 2007, 01:41 PM
    kanicky73
    Sweetheart I have found in my life that the best way to find out how someone feels is to just ask them. Your young and have nothing to lose. Why put yourself through all this and wonder how someone feels. Walk up to him and say, hey are interested or am I reading you wrong. Don't be demanding, be friendly. You may be surprised.
  • Nov 8, 2007, 02:01 PM
    margarita_momma
    I agree with Kanicky. Just ask the boy. What do you have to loose but a lot of stress and sleepless nights lying awake wondering if he likes you. Good luck hon!

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