Hey!! I have been with my boyfriend or should I say my ex-boyfriend for almost 7 years. We are now out of school and working out in the real world. A few months ago, he started to not want to see me as much and has been not calling as much. He is just not the same person anymore. He says that he is going through a lot (which he is) and he doesn't know what he wants anymore. So, I told him I think we need to take a break to see what he wants. He was hesitated at first, but then he agreed. The reason why I am writing to you, is to see how to handle things, and to see if you can give me some advice to work out our relationship? I know he loves me!

Thank you:( :confused:

Take the break like you've suggested. Don't contact each other and live your life as though he doesn't exist. One of two things will happen ; you'll either realize that you miss each other and want to be together, in which case your relationship will be solidified, or you'll decide that you really don't want to be together after all. Either way, you'll know where you stand with each other.