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  • Nov 7, 2007, 07:31 AM
    michellemichellemichelle
    I don't understand him
    I really like this guy and last summer we dated for a few month. We started sleeping together but it seemed he only contacted me when he wanted sex so I felt for my own dignity I needed to end the relationship even though I really cared for him. He text me back and asked me why I was ending things but I didn't reply. I hoped that he would see he really cared about me deep down but I never heard from him again. Recently we got in touch again, I was the one who contacted him, we slept together but again things seem to be as before. When we see each other in a pub he always smiles as though he is really happy to see me, if I pass him in the car again he will wave, and he always replies my texts if I ask him a question although if I just send a friendly one he doesn't always reply. I recently asked him if he wanted to meet up again, he said yes and that I was looking really nice when he saw me the other night. He text me yesterday and said morning gorgeous. I don't know where I stand with this guy, does he like me or is he just stringing me along. I always thought guys don't do things or say things that they don't want to do is this right or am I just being niave.
  • Nov 7, 2007, 09:09 AM
    linds03
    This guy is using you for sex. Period. Do not see him again... if you really want someone to have unlimited access to your body, then go ahead. He is a player. Do you really think this guy gives two sh*ts about you and your mind, your thoughts or feelings?? NOOO. He's saying to himself each time he hears from you "ca ching! she fell for it again!!" PLEASE, I beg you, do not to be that stupid girl who lets a rat like this use her whenever he feels like it. Seriously... your better than that. He loves this because you fall for it! Cut the SON OF A B*TCH LOOSE!
  • Nov 7, 2007, 09:10 AM
    christIAN EWING
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by michellemichellemichelle
    I really like this guy and last summer we dated for a few month. We started sleeping together but it seemed he only contacted me when he wanted sex so I felt for my own dignity I needed to end the relationship even though I really cared for him. He text me back and asked me why I was ending things but I didn't reply. I hoped that he would see he really cared about me deep down but I never heard from him again. Recently we got in touch again, I was the one who contacted him, we slept together but again things seem to be as before. When we see each other in a pub he always smiles as though he is really happy to see me, if I pass him in the car again he will wave, and he always replies my texts if I ask him a question altough if i just send a friendly one he doesn't always reply. I recently asked him if he wanted to meet up again, he said yes and that I was looking really nice when he saw me the other night. He text me yesterday and said morning gorgeous. I don't know where I stand with this guy, does he like me or is he just stringing me along. I always thought guys don't do things or say things that they dont want to do is this right or am I just being niave.

    Seem like he want to get your pant every time he see u
    Educated guess
  • Nov 9, 2007, 06:45 AM
    michellemichellemichelle
    Comment on linds03's post
    Just what I needed someone telling it just as it is!

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