I just found out that my finacee and his grandparents are talking about me behind my back. It really hurts my feelings that they won't do it in frount of my face. We don't really have any problems expect seting a date for our wedding and we are trying to get pregnant. But that's about it. He just started doing this. We were fine before we moved in with his grandparents. He has never talked bad about me and this is the very first. I don't understand why he is doing this. What should I do?

Well, I guess the most obvious response is to suggest that you don't over-react. Can't you just ask them not to do that? Remember, different people have different levels of privacy, and perhaps your fiancé and his family have a very different level that you do?

It would be helpful to know if this was malicious kind of talk, or was your fiancé just trying to work out a problem and needed someone to talk to?

Bear in mind, that in posting this question, you are pretty much talking behind your fiancé's back too!

Hugs, Didi