Ask Me Help Desk - Am I in love?

Hello there ! Well, I am going to get down to the bottom right away, My story goes like this, I've never been in love, or I haven't believed in it. However, once I got in college, everythin has changed. I met a girl that I always talk to . As a matter of fact, we do speak like we've known each other for so long, but there is nothing about love at all. Well, for the couple of weeks, I've been thinking a lot about 'er. Once I sleep, work, read and even in my dreams. In spite of that, when we talk, we both have a sense of humor. Eveybody makes fun of the other in a positive way. I've realized that I am kind of in love, but I am not sure what she feels towards me. Sometimes, I feel like she is going to be my girlfriend, but I feel like she loves me as a brother. I don't know.. What do you think Yo.. I really need your help . It means a lot to me.
I am really new in this field and I do have an honest inention .

You should tell her how you feel. You could say something like "I really enjoy the time I spend with you. I feel like I can talk to you about anything." or something like that. Then, you can see how she responds. If she says that she feels the same way, then ask her out on a date. She obviously likes you as a friend, at the very least. Maybe she is waiting to see if you will ask her out. I would just go for it. But, make sure that you are prepared if she doesn't feel the same way. Personally, I think life is too short to leave things unsaid. Just tell her how you feel- it could be the start of something awesome!

Wow ! I like what've said. It's really awesome. Well, I didn't worn about something... Well, we're not able to ask the girl out on a date. I am in an arabian country, and I guess we're culturely diffrernt. All what I need is to know if she feels something towards me. And I am all ready if she likes me as a brother or a class-mate. It won't affect this amazin realationship. Thank you.

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Originally Posted by The illusionist

Hello there ! Well, I am gonna get down to the bottom right away, My story goes like this, I've never been in love, or I haven't believed in it. However, once I got in college, everythin has changed. I met a girl that I always talk to . As a matter of fact, we do speak like we've known each other for so long, but there is nothin about love at all. Well, for the couple of weeks, I've been thinkin a lot about 'er. Once I sleep, work, read and even in my dreams. In spite of that, when we talk, we both have a sense of humor. Eveybody makes fun of the other in a positive way. I've realized that I am kinda in love, but I am not sure what she feels towards me. Sometimes, I feel like she is gonna be my girlfriend, but I feel like she loves me as a brother. I don't know.. What do ya think Yo.. I really need your help . It means a lot to me.
I am really new in this field and I do have an honest inention .

There is definitely a great friendship between you two. The reason I think you feel that she likes you like a brother is because of the fact that she is so comfortable around you (and you around her.) THAT is a great sign. Just remember take "baby steps" when it comes to love. I only say this because you stated you were not sure if you have ever been "in" love before. Be patient and time will tell if this is truly the REAL thing. WISHING YOU THE BEST

There is definitely a great friendship between you two. The reason I think you feel that she likes you like a brother is because of the fact that she is so comfortable around you (and you around her.) THAT is a great sign. Just remember take "baby steps" when it comes to love. I only say this because you stated you were not sure if you have ever been "in" love before. Be patient and time will tell if this is truly the REAL thing. WISHING YOU THE BEST

Yes I can vouch for that... take it slow.. comfort is a great thing... in fact it's a blessing with love. I've learned a lesson.. you can't go from strangers to a serious relationship... it just skips out too many aspects.. start as great friends and most likely you'll be great lovers too... as far as asking her out.. its not as complicated as it sounds... there's a fine line between friends and dating and you'll know when your both ready to cross it. It won't even be a question it will just happen... my advice is keep being frineds and what's meant to happen will happen all on its own.