Originally Posted by CharD03
I would love to have a family photo with my boyfriend our new baby boy and his son (5, Devonte) from a previous relationship. However, my boyfriend brings up that he doesn't want to exclude his ex if we take a photo with her (their) son. I don't want to look at my family photo and see her. I would even be okay with him taking a family photo with her and their son and then our own. He says i would just creat separatism. I don't know how to explain to him that 'yes, you are still involved in your son's life but as far as their family unit goes, its just his ex and their son. Am i going about this the wrong way? Am i just be selfish?