Is it wrong to have a civil ceremony now, and a big wedding later?
My Fiancé and I want to get married when he comes home on leave in Dec. He is in The marines and he has to go to iraq in Feb. I want to marry him because i love him so much :D and if worse comes to worse at least I will have his last name! So would it be wrong to do a civil ceremony now and while he is gone I can plan for the big wedding for us to have when he gets back?
He will be gone for 7 months! I mean we are not going to tell anyone that we are getting married before because then that would make them not want to come to the real wedding:confused:
Please give me your thoughts on this,
Thanks a bunch!:)