I've been going out with this one girl for about over 2 years, we've had a lot of sex before, maybe first few weeks of going out we already have been doing it for at least 2-3 times a day, everyday, then months later, maybe 1-2 times everyday, & etc etc..

now its been 2 years, but in past few months & etc I've been experiencing going LIMP a lot.. it pisses me off and makes me feel like there's something wrong with me..

foreplay, inserts hard co ck, then I might either go limp while inside, or when switching positions I will go limp.. takes awhile for it to get hard again, and when I do get it hard again, its so easy to climax and..

so then I thought it was a Timing issue, so I read up and trained by holding off my by watching porn & stopping i.e. edging / engourging / kegeling // etc

then it just makes my boners less hard then before..

basically do I have to Stop watching porn to get my sex excitement back? If I do that then I won't be able to fulfill what I want , and that is to not c u m in less then 15 minutes..

I can't train, or else it'll cause me to risk going limp...

sometimes jackin off to porn & edging / engourging feels better then sex...


w t f is wrong with me... =(


by the way my age is 20 & I am in very good heatlh / gym 3-5 times a week with a very good well balanaced diet.

You go to the gym a lot, are you taking any muscle building protein or pills that could possibly do that? Not on any diet? Stress? It can be sooo many things you wouldn't think are relevant like money, relationship changes, living together, change of lifestyle anything. You are turning to the porn because you feel unequipped or so to speak and have built the "fear" of going limp in the bedroom and then facing embarrassment. How often are you masturbating? I think its normal for a guy to do it up to 3 times a week. Your 20 years old I am sure you have no medical problems in that area, I think it's the mental aspect not physical.

Have you checked with a doctor yet?

There are PLENTY of physical causes, even at age 20, that can cause ED.

First stop, your doctor. After that, I would evaluate your lifestyle and maybe keep a journal of what all was going on--in your life AND in your head--at the times this happened.