Where in the states are the cowboys or country lads, who are really friendly??

They're all over, you just have to look! If you like the cowboy/country type, try getting involved in something you think they would be into. You could join a riding club, a square dance group, or something like that. Look and see if there are any outdoor adventure type trips around where you live. Like canoe trips, or a hiking vacation. That way you will be meeting people with similar interests.

You can find a cowboy in almost every state, even in California. Just be careful for the pseudo cowboys, lots of them everywhere.

Real cowboys are going to be found in the southwest, working the ranches. Country boys are all over the place in the States.

Go to South Dakota. They aren't hard to find and they are the nicest!