Ok I have been single now for 5 months and I really don't want to be anymore. I'm always out and about meeting new people and having a good time. It seems like every time I meet a girl I like and she seems to be interested in me, it turns out the opposite. I ask her out to either the movies or too coffee or something very casual. I usually get ignored, they make of excuses, or they lie and say they have a boyfriend. Am I doing something wrong here, am I trying to hard?