I'm cureently in a long distance relationship with the father of my child. We love each other to bit but were on the second and last month of being apart and I can feel us both disintergrating in a way. What can I do to help us a long, he's currently working 40-60 hours a week to stop from missing me and his son and getting money together but he's mentioned he feels he's he's going a bit mad. I am currently a full time mum and thinking about draining my money to get me and my son down to see him??


Another other suggestions more than welcome

How big a drain would going to see him be? How long into the second month are you? Sometimes being apart for too long is not a good thing, especially if he says he feels like he is going a little mad. Is he in a good place , taking care of himself? Eating well, etc. Fatigue and loneliness can take it's toll on anyone. If you are sure of your welcome, go, show him you care.