My wife just told me she love another man... we've been married for 5 years and we have two kids... how could I change her mind that what she is doing is wrong.she doesn't want me to speak to anyone about it especially her mum but I just told her mum and now she is devastating.She says she is going for good... Is she serious or because she is just angry?

It all depends, you see maybe your wife isn't happy with your relationship. You should first tell her you love her dearly and tell her to think about your kids. Give her all positive, show her that you care and love her. Show her that you will be there for her. If she comes back you got to spice up the relationship.

Show her you love her.

Cxxx]:::::::::::::::::::::::::> Miroku

Imate,

First, you have to decide if the lady is worth your trying to pursue again. If you decide to forgive her, then it would certainly help if your wife was somewhat contrite about her actions. This gal chose to break her vow to you. She didn't consider the damage she was doing to you or the children.

My suggestion is the next time she gets huffy or angry about telling her mother, consider what this gal dumped into your lap because of her choices. If she wants back into your family, she must ask to come back. If she does not ask, don't invite her. Instead, show her the door and suggest that leave and don't return until she can control herself.

I agree with miroku and donf
Until she leaves do everything you can to be the husband she wanted to marry
But when she leaves tell her 'don't let the door hit you in the butt.' It is her mistake but if you argue with her and run to her mother about her she is only going to resent you more.
She is not thinking of your kids and the consequences they can likely go through by bad decisions.