For those of you who read my previous post about my ex know that he came up to me and told me he loved me and I thought we were slowly going to try to move towards something. Now he says he loves me but he could meet someone tomorrow, it's not the right time, he's scared, blah blah blah. Then he leaves me a vm saying "You know how I feel about you, know it, believe it". This is all too wishy washy for me. I told him to call me when he figured out what he really wants, whether its freindship or otherwise, but no more in between. I'm moving on for now and if he comes back I might be here I might not. Please tell me what you think of this situation, whether it's hopeless or not. I'm not waiting around. ;)

Don't waste your time waiting for someone who isn't sure whether he wants you. There is that special person out there for you somewhere. Forget this guy, if he can't decide if your perfect then you definitely deserve better

I'm going through the same stuff with my "guy". This wishy-washy, can't make a decision from one day to the next! It's ridiculous! But really look at the situation... will this guy be worth waiting for? In my heart I know I should move on. But I feel I can't... not yet. I'm not going to put a time frame on it. Hopefully I'll have enough sense to know when the time is right to let go. Just don't be so quick to say enough. This guy may be the one who is worth the wait!

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Originally Posted by shellbell225

For those of you who read my previous post about my ex know that he came up to me and told me he loved me and I thought we were slowly going to try to move towards something. Now he says he loves me but he could meet someone tomorrow, it's not the right time, he's scared, blah blah blah. Then he leaves me a vm saying "You know how I feel about you, know it, believe it". This is all too wishy washy for me. I told him to call me when he figured out what he really wants, whether its freindship or otherwise, but no more in between. I'm moving on for now and if he comes back I might be here I might not. Please tell me what you think of this situation, whether it's hopeless or not. I'm not waiting around. ;)

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I understand the whole situation you are going threw and you know what it isn't worth it because in the end you will be the one getting hurt and wasting time on his if I were you I would let him go and see what happens but you move on to... but then on the other hand he could be cheating keep an eye on him and see if he hangs out with anymore girls... I would do that.. or just break it off totally... if he doesn't want to be with you know why would he want to be with you later..?

Good for you!

I am also going through the same thing, and sometimes when it's really tough, it's good to know there are other people who feel the same way. If you have to wait, wait for the right guy.