I enjoy sex but have never orgasmed through penetration only oral. We tried everything. Any suggestions?

I don't get it, genie, I replied to your post 'struggling' and here I see another one from you about orgasms... huh. Care to explain your circumstances; are you trying to put us on or what ?

I would say climb up on top and figure it out yourself!
Being on top works the best for me, you get to control it and it rubs all the right spots

It all depends on where your G-spot ends up being. But for me, I find that the best orgasms are when I am lying down and my legs are on his shoulders... it is amazing. Once, I had a 15 minute orgasm! Amazing.

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Originally Posted by geniegee2003

I enjoy sex but have never orgasmed through penetration only oral. we tried everything. Any suggestions?

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I myself have no trouble w/the O in any position, however, riding or legs over shoulders do tend to work the best. Here's a suggestion for you. Since you O during oral, why not let your SO almost get you to O then hurry and assume the position? Try that.

Try being on top. While you are having sex with him, lean toward him a little like you are going to kiss him. That should hit the right spots.. atleast it does for me. Hope this helps. :-)

I'd have to agree on top. It allows you to be in control. It took my years for my first orgasm. The guy that I finally did have one with make it a point every time we were together to talk to me and see what he could do to make it better. It might sound bad but at first you really have to try to forget about the other person and just think about yourself.