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The nervous game is where a guy and a girl (guy usually goes first) he will start at our knee and go to your thigh, waist , stomach, and then to your chest, as he keeps asking, nervous, nervous, and my crush asked me if I wanted to play (at that time I didn't know what it was) and so we didn't but AND he siad I LUV U to ME on the PHONE!! Doesn't that means he likes me?
Yea if I were you I would get the imprestion that he does.
It could just mean that he wants to see if you'll let him do more because he tells you he loves you. Tread carefully and don't do anything that you will regret later. The game he wants to play could lead to sex, and you need to be aware of all the possible problems that this could lead to, especially if you are under 25. (Like cervical cancer, pregnancy, disease, bad rumours about you, etc.) NEVER use the excuse that you are in love or someone is in love with you to lead to sex play. It is not a mature, responsible reason.
Hugs, Didi
Look, I'm a guy, and sometimes I call girls that I know pet names like "sweetheart" "babe" "beautiful", I also tell girls that I feel close to "I love you" after conversations... I don't mean that I like them, this guy could be the same way.
You can get yourself into a lot of trouble by doing that. You are leading girls to believe that you mean it, when it is just a flippent thing you do. You are saying something that you don't truly mean, and you could end up hurting a girl that you don't necessarily mean to do.Quote:
Originally Posted by bigbassist15
Boys are mostly visual. While girls listen to everything the boy says to her. It is a set up for bad feelings, when you say things to a girl that you have no intention on carrying through with. Girls are wired much differently than boys. The proven fact is that females can use both the left and right part of their brain simultaneously, whereas males have to use one side at a time. What you think will be taken the same way by your girlfriend, is often not the way she will understand it. That is why communication is required in order to form a relationship. You need to ask questions, and then weigh the answer.
Calling a girl Sweetie, honey, whatever pet name it is, is fine! That gives her a clue that you are interested. But, saying "I love you", unless it is followed by... as a friend, or something like that, elevates expectations, and is a precription for a lot of hurt feelings.
Don't let any boy manipulate you with words. Words are followed by actions, and you need to sit back and watch his behaviour. I can tell you right now, that he wants do do more than just play! He is trying to convince you that he loves you, at this point, so you will give in and have sex with him.Quote:
Originally Posted by depressedhelp
I'm not saying that he doesn't "like" you, but he certainly doesn't love you. Love is not a feeling that comes from "down under". Love is a promise, and a true committed feeling you have in your heart, and the heart is something that comes within you, not something that is on the outer side of your body.
Be careful, and consider the consequences of what could happen, if you are too quick to give in to this boy. I also have to say, you must know that something didn't feel right to you, because you didn't "play" with him the last time. Trust your gut, because if it tells you something is wrong, and you are not ready, your gut is always right!
Be careful! :)
Bigbassist15
Darnit, accidentally hit enter before I finished giving the rep. Sorry.Quote:
Altenweg agrees: Balancer. Why are you giving a reddie for this answer? Because your
What I wanted to say is; Why are you giving a reddie for this answer? Because you're angry? That's not how the rating system works. Please read the rules and regulations.
Thank you.
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