So here's the thing, we never officially broke up, he went over seas and when he got back I heard he's getting married.we ahvent spoken since so its been a year, I tried getting back in to the dating game, failed dismally.. so the wedding is next month, the girl and I have the same name, I'm over him.. why am I still on this? Confused perhaps?:confused: :mad:

I think its because you never got clouser. Men do not understand that women need that to move on. Are you still hurt over this? I think you need to talk to him and find out what the hell happened.

I can't talk to him, because he won't answer my calls or reply to my texts. I gave up on that a few months ago. I wish there was an alternative, what's terrible is that 1 of my friends said, she stoled my life. My ex, my friends, my name and even my color schemes!

Have you ever tried confronting him somewhere like his apt, or where he works? But you don't want to stalk him or anything...