well here's the story... I started talking to this girl about a month ago ever since then we have hit it off pretty good but has this Bf and theve been datin about a month now we talk on the phone every day till like 12:00 at night I know she talks to me way more than her boyfriend cause she's told me she tells me everything including the problems she's having with her boyfriend she tells me how big of a jerk he is and how how he hangs out with other girls that are supposedly his "friends" but she having a hard time trusting him and I give her advice al the time about it the other day I asked her out of the random if she liked me and she said yes but she tells that she really likes her boyfriend even though she tells me how big of a jerk he his I'm really confused when we spend time together its great almost feels like where dating I need some advice here I want to be with her but at the same time I don't want to ruin our friendship because I want to be with her and another thing thing his she always wears my dog tags that I got frm the army around her neck I don't know if that a sighn any advice would be helpful thanks guys:D
-Punisher

She has a BF so is off limits. If she wants to be with you she would dump the BF. Don't fall into the trap of being her emotional backstop.

I would stay away. Why would you want to do that to her BF. I mean why put the temtation there for her to make a mistake. Don't be her mistake.

If she has a boyfriend distance yourself, you can be her friend and that's as far as it should go. By trying to be with her you will create problems with her current boyfriend and she won't thank you for it.