Well, lately my boyfriend has had some issues getting/maintaing an erection. We've been together for 3 1/2 years and we have gone through spells of this in the past. I just don't know what to do. It just makes me feel unattractive and like I'm not turning him on anymore. We have sex about 2-3 times a week with no problem but we probably try 2 other times during that same week and something happens. For example, this past weekend we had sex on Saturday.. everything was good. On Sunday, we were in the middle of having sex and we went to change positions and he lost his hard-on. Then Tuesday night we had sex and everything was good. Then Wednesday morning, we started having sex in the shower but we started fidgeting around trying to get the right position and we lost it. Then later that day he grabbed me and pulled me into the bedroom to have sex but this time he couldn't even get an erection. And he said he was completely turned-on but his body wouldn't cooperate. Just wanted to vent and was wondering if any one has similar issues. Should I be concerned? Is there anything I can do? Or should I just try not to make a bid deal of it?

Welcome to the real world-this is quite common-it's unlikely to be anything associated with you so don't take it to heart.

Patience and no pressure fixes most of these types of issues.

Thanks, xraymen. I figured as much. I guess its probably something people don't like to talk about it so I was afraid that I was the only one. I figured just leaving it alone and not making a big deal about it was the best thing to do.

Don't worry too much about it. Perhaps its stress at work, or with his family, or him just having his mind on other things that he can't seem to shake.