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  • Oct 31, 2007, 10:58 AM
    MICHELLE81
    Boobs and back hurt
    Hello, my name is michelle and I am new to the community.

    I have very large breasts (just got implants to make even bigger) but am feeling bad about my decscion. My large breasts make my back hurt so bad! People are starting to look at me very funny due to the size of my breasts. I try to cover them up but it just doesn't work!
    What can I do to stop my back from hurting?
  • Oct 31, 2007, 10:59 AM
    JoeCanada76
    Getting implants was a bad decision maybe the only solution to your problem is to get them removed.
  • Oct 31, 2007, 11:20 AM
    MICHELLE81
    Well my husband really likes them a lot though and they only hurt when I walk. Trust me, you would like them to.
    I'm thinking about going back to the doctor
  • Oct 31, 2007, 11:23 AM
    JoeCanada76
    I honestly do not care for breast size. I am a man who like the natural. So honestly I probably would not like them but obviously it is not a healthy choice for you. It is not something you did for yourself but for your husband, by the sounds of it.
  • Oct 31, 2007, 11:53 AM
    NotUrOrdinaryGirl
    Hi michelle, I have naturally big boobs, 36DDD, and in my opinion go return them. The back problems are only going to get worst, and although your husband may like them now, if he LOVES you then I'm sure he doesn't want you to endure anything that hurts you especially medically. Believe me just take this mistake as an experience and learn from it.
  • Oct 31, 2007, 05:41 PM
    RustyFairmount
    You need to correct the problem, not just treat the symptoms. Reduce the size as quickly as you can afford to do so.
  • Oct 31, 2007, 06:36 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    Yes, many ladies with large breasts actually get them reduced to solve serious back issues. The weight of the breasts can cause some long lasting and worsting back issues. This is something a doctor should have warned you about.

    You need to speak to a doctor that specialises in the back to determine.
    Your husband may like them now, but when you are so bent over you can't stand straight as a older lady not sure what he will think.
  • Oct 31, 2007, 09:23 PM
    Xrayman
    Widow's hump is not attractive. Your doctor should have advised you of this possibility before getting implants. (and if they were large beforehand, then why did you get them enlarged?) The fact that people stare is blatantly obvious. If they look out of proportion-then yes people will stare-just like if I walked around with a melon in my pants.

    Try to get a reduced size or get them removed fullstop.

    Holy mackerel.
  • Nov 2, 2007, 12:58 AM
    CindyLynn
    HI! You just need to get a really good supporting bra (not vivtorias secret!)... and you also need to tretrain yourselft on you body mechanics. I physical therapist could help you with this and if you have health insurance you may be able to have it pay for this if you have back pain listed as your diagnosis (of course not mentioning the breast implants) I do think you can solve the problem with support and body posture and mechanics.
  • Nov 2, 2007, 04:29 AM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by MICHELLE81
    I have very large breasts (just got implants to make even bigger) What can I do to stop my back from hurting?

    Hello M:

    You can have very large butt implants installed to balance you out.

    excon
  • Nov 24, 2007, 06:57 PM
    Mizz_Me
    Comment on NotUrOrdinaryGirl's post
    Yep if he loves you he would want to see you in good health! Duh!
  • Dec 7, 2007, 08:47 PM
    Choux
    You have to exercise regularly to strengthen your back and shoulders and wear a good fitting bra. Otherwise, you're going to become sedentary to avoid pain, and your body tone will go downhill fast.

    Here's a pep talk, don't become someone else's plaything... develop yourself as a whole woman---have men as just a part of an otherwise successful life. :)
  • Dec 7, 2007, 09:40 PM
    MrChevvy57
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by MICHELLE81
    hello, my name is michelle and i am new to the community.

    i have very large breasts (just got implants to make even bigger) but am feeling bad about my decscion. my large breasts make my back hurt so bad! People are starting to look at me very funny due to the size of my breasts. I try to cover them up but it just doesnt work!
    What can I do to stop my back from hurting?

    Hi Michelle, why on earth did you get implants when you already had big boobs(don't get me wrong big fan of the big boobs). Your doctor must be an idiot if he agreed to do them for you. Goodluck with your decision

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