I want this from different point of views...
When I was pregnant the father was with someone else and they got engaged and giot her pregnant but she got an abortion as he cheated on her... couple of months after we have got back together and are currently living apart as he moves up in December but I suspect he's cheating again he's been hangng around with his ex again drinking but denies that anything has happened and says they are just friends.


What do you think?

Why are putting up with drama? This brother cheats on you with someone.. he the get engaged to marry a woman... that he then cheats on. Do I think he is cheating.. yeah. Why are you did you decide to get back with him?

It's that typical I love him story... but I could be wrong and being insecure

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Originally Posted by Fi_belton

i want this from different point of views...
when i was pregnant the father was with someone else and they got engaged and giot her pregnant but she got an abortion as he cheated on her ...couple of months after we have got back together and are currently living apart as he moves up in december but i suspect hes cheating again hes been hangng around with his ex again drinking but denies that anything has happend and says they are just friends.


what do you think?

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You have to have an open mind when it comes to this, as you no yourself your partner is not the faithful type and as the saying goes a leopard never changes his spots. But on the other hand it could just be a friendly relationship that the two have going on if they both have pasts together they may find it easier to be open with one another about things they can't with other friends. This is very common. To be honest its sounds as though there isn't a lot of trust in your reationship and a relationship is built on trust and if you carry on your relationship will be like a battle field and that's not fair on your child. I believe that no woman is insucure because we have instinct and if they tell you he is cheating then stick to your guard you could be right and you are definitely not insecure as you no he has cheated before hope that has been of help. X

There is NOTHING to be gained from this guy... except a civil relationship -
for the sake of child and you... you need a new guy and a new life.
it's not easy = but life is not easy.

living your life like a jerry springer show is not good in the long run.