Ask Me Help Desk - She's making me feel so bad!

Well... I have this friend, and she is really mad at one of my other friends
I went up to My othere friend to talk to her, cause I think My friend was mad at me, but she actually was not! Then She really got mad at me. We made after 2 days. RThen today yesterday I went to go see my other friend and she gets really mad at me again!! Of cource we made up after a while, but I don't kniw what to do. I want to be both their friends but someone will be mad at me no matter who I choose to talk to. What do I do? :(

It sounds like you are caught in the middle. You need to tell this girl that you were friends with both before they fought and you will be friends with both now. Tell her that just because you are talking to the other girl doesn't mean you are saying her feelings aren't important. It's just that the fight had nothing to do with you. Tell her that you want to be friends with each of them. Tell her that although you understand her feelings, you aren't going to end the friendship over a fight between other people. If she continues to get mad at you, tell her that you have nothing else to say until she stops being so childish. Your friend needs to get over this. If she can't handle it now, how will she feel when she has a fight with a co-worker or relative? It sounds like you are more mature than she is. If she continues to be mad, just write it off as her being childish. In time, as she grows up a little, she will realize that you did nothing wrong to her. If she continues to make you feel bad, she isn't a true friend. Hope this helps!

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Originally Posted by Golden Heart Girl

well....I have this friend, and she is really mad at one of my other friends
i went up to My othere friend to talk to her, cause I think My friend was mad at me, but she actually was not! Then She really got mad at me. we made after 2 days. RThen today yesterday I went to go see my other friend and she gets really mad at me again!!!! Of cource we made up after a while, but I don't kniw what to do. I want to be both their friends but someone will be mad at me no matter who I choose to talk to. What do I do??:(

Get both of them together and tell both of them you want to be both of them friend because its driving you crazy when they gey mad at you.