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  • Oct 30, 2007, 01:51 PM
    Unforgettable
    Should I have sex?
    I met this guy and I'm not sure if I should sleep with him. I've only known him for about 2 months. What should I do.
  • Oct 30, 2007, 02:11 PM
    MarkRealEstateConsultant
    Be cautious, be an adult, be safe.
  • Oct 30, 2007, 02:45 PM
    statesgirl
    I don't think your ready to have sex if you came on this site to ask. If you are ready you would have done it. If you are just be careful! You could get hurt by him (emoticonally) or regret it later.
  • Oct 30, 2007, 04:18 PM
    atmisk
    My advice would be wait a little longer to find out if he's the right person u should have sex with.

    2 months isn't a really long time
  • Oct 30, 2007, 04:33 PM
    J_9
    How old are you? Are you prepared for motherhood? Are you ready for the possibility of pregnancy? Is this the boy that you want to be attached to for the rest of your life?

    Sex, whether protected or not ALWAYS runs a risk of pregnancy. We must be prepared for the possibility of pregnancy whenever engaging in sex.
  • Oct 30, 2007, 04:42 PM
    Homegirl 50
    In my opinion Unless you can look at a guy and say "yes, I can see myself with him in the long haul, yes I can see him as father to any kids I may have, yes, I've known him long enough and well enough that I'd trust my body and soul with him", don't give it up!
    If you have to ask if you should, that's the first sign you shouldn't, and you don't really know this guy, that's the second sign.
    Should you have sex with him? NO!
  • Oct 30, 2007, 04:49 PM
    _Krissi_
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Unforgettable
    I met this guy and I'm not sure if I should sleep with him. I've only known him for about 2 months. what should I do.

    Since you are even questioning it,I don't think you really are ready for that.
    Are you a virgin?

    I think you should make sure the guy wouldn't leave you after that and
    You have to be possitive that you really have feelings for him if its your first time.
    You also should probably wait longer. Like Atmisk said 2 months is not a vry long time.
  • Oct 30, 2007, 05:49 PM
    atmisk
    don't him anything related to sex. If he does leave you because of that its all about sex. You are in no rush =) u still have a lot of time
  • Oct 30, 2007, 05:53 PM
    statictable
    If your not sure don't. You don't have to rationalize. You'll know when and who with when it happens.
  • Oct 31, 2007, 07:43 PM
    kitty-kat19
    First of all two months isn't enough time to know whether you want to take that big of a step with them. Second of all if you have to ask I'd say you already know the awnser.
  • Nov 1, 2007, 10:50 AM
    HaleyPosey
    Two months really isn't enough.
  • Nov 2, 2007, 03:41 AM
    Lilmsperfect
    I think that having sex without knoing someone fully is pointless. Sex is something that is very personal and jumping into bed with someone you don't really no is a mistake. Take your time to get to no the person first and take it step by step if he really respects you then he will understand. X
  • Nov 2, 2007, 03:58 AM
    geniegee2003
    The fact that you came on this site to ask proves your not ready. Uv only known him for a short time, if you wait then decide the time is right then it will feel better and be more memorable

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