I am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend from last 5 yrs. We have had a wonderful time until he started talking and messaging to this colleague in his office , I was not aware of this fact that they both message for long hours andused to meet her daily. They kissed each other on VDAY.He told me about this and was guilty .I fogave him... Then he said he is in love with her, please help me to get over this but he kept on saying that he had 2 girl frens... I helped. Him. To come out of this as all this was for just few months affair.. in the meanwhile, we had a really bad time as we fought over his meetings with her and their talking on the phone,the fight went on becoming really bad. He use to slap me and even I did the same... and then we use to feel sorry for what we did... but this started happening frequently... Then slowly the girl started trying on him , if I could go awawy... but that did not happened , so... she finally went away... But he was interested in being aqauintance... Now she is not there, he doesn't meet her... but still I feel thry want to meet and want to be frens... she is very cunning, but tries to contact him through messenger (online)... and I fight with him for that a lot... our relationship is strong but it is ruining day by day... please help

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If you want to save this relationship you have just accept that your boyfriend is going to be unfaithful.

Your boyfriend is 100% responsible not this woman at his job.

Your confusing comes in because you love but don't want to be treated like this.

Please for your well being leave him.

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Originally Posted by sweety_ind

I am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend from last 5 yrs. We have had a wonderful time until he started talking and messaging to this colleague in his office , i was not aware of this fact that they both mesage for long hours andused to meet her daily. they kissed each other on VDAY.He told me about this and was guilty .I fogave him....Then he said he is in love with her, please help me to get over this but he kept on saying that he had 2 girl frens..... i helped. him. to come out of this as all this was for just few months affair..in the meanwhile, we had a really bad time as we fought over his meetings with her and their talking on the phone,the fight went on becoming really bad. he use to slap me and even i did the same .....and then we use to feel sorry for what we did...but this started happening frequently.....Then slowly the girl started trying on him , if i could go awawy...but that didnot happened , so ....she finally went away.........................But he was interested in being aqauintance................. Now she is not there, he doesnt meet her .........but still i feel thry want to meet and want to be frens...........she is very cunning, but tries to contact him through messanger (online)...........and i fight with him for that a lot...........our relationship is strong but it is ruining day by day...........please help

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Well I say it hard when a guy turn to you and say he love another it burn your insides
Out. Then to feel hope is restored and he back in your glare but he hurt you abet bad but I know what love dose it turn the hard man soft but listen buy staying with him your being a walk over I know of this for ones I was I was treat like nothing but listen ples don't be the walkover don't stay with a man who hurt you. If a man should come to me and say I don't love you know more yeah I'll be heart broken but there be out of the door for he can't possible love you like he use to sorry to say please leave him there some else probably out there who respect you
Lyy jenny
Best wishes xx