So this is the situation... I am a 25 year old male who met another guy at school, became friends, and over time, have fallen in love! The only problem is that the guy I fell in love with is "straight" and has a girlfriend, and does not know that I am bisexual. The reason I put straight in quotes is that although there has never been anything explicit said or done, I do feel like there is some flirtation between the two of us. Little things, like the way he looks at me or the fact that whenever we go out in groups and such, he insists on sitting/being next to me, tells me there might be something there. Also, we are constantly play fighting and doing silly things that children do when they are trying to flirt and not be obvious about it. A piece of me wants to take the chance and tell him how I feel, but my reputation is on the line and I do not want to ruin the strong friendship that we have. I'm also afraid that all the things I considered flirtations are just misinterpreted. Am I barking up the wrong tree here? what should I do?

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Originally Posted by belovedks

So this is the situation...I am a 25 year old male who met another guy at school, became friends, and over time, have fallen in love! The only problem is that the guy I fell in love with is "straight" and has a girlfriend, and does not know that I am bisexual. The reason I put straight in quotes is that although there has never been anything explicit said or done, I do feel like there is some flirtation between the two of us. Little things, like the way he looks at me or the fact that whenever we go out in groups and such, he insists on sitting/being next to me, tells me there might be something there. Also, we are constantly play fighting and doing silly things that children do when they are trying to flirt and not be obvious about it. A piece of me wants to take the chance and tell him how I feel, but my reputation is on the line and I do not want to ruin the strong friendship that we have. I'm also afraid that all the things I considered flirtations are just misinterpreted. Am I barking up the wrong tree here??what should I do??

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umm wow thats kinda hard to say i think u should just ask him questions like started out playin around and say something like "what do u think about bisexual"? if a guy told u he liked u what would u do ?" stuff like that but make sure yall playin a game like dirty hearts and how u play that is if ONLY A HEART LAND ON THAT PERSON U CAN ASK ANYTHINK AND THEY HAVE TO TELL THE TRUTH if not then they have to do whateva u want them to do. lol its a really fun game try it but it u dont want to do that then u should just let him know how u feel and im not gone say its gone mess up yall friendship but u just might or might not but u dont want to keep guessing around and end up doing something u will regret .