I had my 1st love 14 years ago. We were together for about 2 years, but not a couple. It was against her religion and shed always tell me we couldn't hook up anymore,but we still did. One day she got a boyfriend while we were still hooking up. I loved her more than life and had never been so devastated. Then one day she called and left me a meaasge telling me she loved me but when I returned the call her sister said she left for the summer. She did summer camp and the boy worked there too. To make a long story short, now they are married and we haven't spoke in 8 or 9 years. She was a she and so am I. I try to blame her leaving on the fact that she felt guilty and it wasn't because she didn't love me. Over the past few years she's been in my dreams every few months. Every time she acts like she still loves me and is interested. I had another one last night and they always linger in my mind. Why am I dreaming she loves me when she's married to a man?

I'm not sure but if you go to Google or even any other search engines they should have a dream dictionary to solve that!
Or, you can always go to your local bookstore to get a dream dictionary (recommended)as it has lot's of meanings!
GOOD LUCK!

The answer is obvious to me. Since you still have strong feelings for her, it would only make sense you dream about her like that. There are tons of dream dictionaries online. I use several different ones. The following is an excerpt from a website I use called: An Online Guide To Dream Interpretation

Love

To dream of love of being in love, suggests intense feelings carried over from a waking relationship. It implies happiness and contentment with what you have and where you are in life. On the other hand, you may not be getting enough love in your daily life. We naturally long for the sense to belong and to be accepted.