OK hi my name is julie I have thiss boyfriend bill.ok sense our first date we have been on and off because he realized he's still in love w his ex girl:( .I know he loves me and I want to be with him the rest of my life but, what can I do to get him to stop thinking about her so we can be happy?

If he cares for this ex-girlfriend then there is nothing you can do. He has to move on, on his own. Leave this relationship alone give him time to get over her. The hard part is knowing that this may not happen.

Why would you want to be someone second choice? Always feeling that he is with you because he can't be with her. While you are wasting time with him there is a person out there wants you and only you.

Hey just leave him you deserve better a lot better than him you will find better love far more than it never was deep as the ocean run warm as the morning sun just leave him if he is with you and still think of him ex than he isn't yours ever in your life you deserve better I know how you fell because I went through the same problem but I ignored him for a while and here he came back begging me so be stronggggggggg

Wow!! This happened to me. I love my boyfriend to death... now but then I was dumb and its so not worth it sweetie. I still have issues to this day. I'm to weak to leave. Seriously you should leave before its to late. Don't make excuses for him. You're not going to lik anything any of us say that requires you leaving. What do you want to hear? He'll pick you and only you? If that's what you're looking for then you shouldn't even ask. Really it's a long painful road ahead. You only live once don't waste today over some boy you can replace tomorrow. You may really love him or think you love him but is it worth this pain? There are other people out there who can make you happy all the time. Give them a chance. Not his guy. He can't even focus on you. Happiness is key. Are you happy? Really and truly. Think of him now. Are you happy?

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Originally Posted by wat_now_son12

ok hi my name is julie i have thiss boyfriend bill.ok sense our first date we have been on and off because he relized hes still in love w his ex girl:( .i kno he loves me and i want to b with him the rest of my life but, wat can i do to get him to stop thinking about her so we can b happy?

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Sorry I can't answer your question but if you can give more information I'll try.

How do you know Bill loves you?

Did Bill tell you he still loves the other girl?

Thanks