I am a 16 year old gay male and last night me and my boyfriend tried to have anal sex for the first time. I had ejaculated about 45 minutes before hand and I had an erection when I put on the condom but when I went to try and have sex with him, I lost my erection and I couldn't get it back. This was very embarrassing for me. Also when my boyfriend tries to give me oral sex, I cannot climax at all. Is there something wrong with me because I lost my erection?
I am worried in case it means that I am not gay or that I don't fancy him anymore. I was tired at the time and so was my boyfriend but he was able to have sex with me and keep his erection.
Also, my boyfriend is able to masturbate and ejaculate several times in the space of an hour but after I ejaculate once it takes me a few hours to be able to do so again, does this mean I have a problem?
PLEASE HELP!