Heyah,
I am only a teen but how do I treat my boyfriend because I'm not too sure. I am very shy!!
PLEASE HELP!

I would be nice to him and give him anything he asked for, except for sex. You don't want to go out with a guy just for sex. If he likes you a lot he will not ask for it.:)

Just treat him the same way you would anyone else you really like. Be honest with him, not only about what you do, but also about how you feel. Talk about stuff you have in common. It's OK to be shy. I'm sure as you get to know this guy better, that part will fade away. I bet he feels shy around you too. And never do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable or that you don't want to do.

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Originally Posted by peggyhill

Just treat him the same way you would anyone else you really like. Be honest with him, not only about what you do, but also about how you feel. Talk about stuff you have in common. It's ok to be shy. I'm sure as you get to know this guy better, that part will fade away. I bet he feels shy around you too. And never do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable or that you don't want to do.

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Ok but what if you have been through so much and you get mad very easy and you take all that anger on him then what do oyu do ?

Treat him like you would treat anyone else. Just because you are dating someone doesn't mean it has to get serious to the point where you have to be around him all the time or anything else. As a teen, the relationships you are in now, are only training for the serious ones you will have later in life, so it is very important for you to grasp the concepts that you will need for later relationships. Those skills consist in: being yourself, being true, being honest, and so much more. If you can be yourself and show what you believe then it is great and if you can tell him the truth about mistakes you have made and you are true to the relationship by not cheating, all is well.

-Steffy Baby TM

How old are you?

This answer, at least for me, differs greatly throughout small variations in age.

OK well first I am a teenager who is not shy at all and I dated a lot of guys until I found my fiancé aaron and what I found is that you have to treat him good but Don't give him everything he wants be in control guys like a challenge and I know it will be difficalt if you are shy but work on it treat him good trust him until he gives you a reason not to but don't give him everything he wants DEF... not sex been there done that if he asks for it he does not want you tell him to go find himself a hoe because you isn't given it up and hell leave and go find himself a hoe if you give it to him hell still go find a hoe that's how it is guys like that are never happy with one girl

I suggest treating him the same way you would treat any of your other close friends. Talk to him and understand that he's not perfect and neither are you. You have to be able to let him vent to you when he's having a bad day, and you should be able to do the same. There isn't a specific set of rules to follow. You treat a boy friend the same as you'd treat a best friend almost.