Yes, I know lame... but I really need to figure this out. In a way my life probably depends on it, lol. So yeah, how can I find out my gf's birthday, without getting her to suspect I don't know? She doesn't have it on facebook/myspace, which sucks. And I don't want to do one of those lame questionnaire things if I don't have to.

We are in a LDR and I haven't met her folks, so I can't ask them (that'd be an impressive first impression).

We met while we were both travelling, and our birthdays weren't for a while, so it wasn't in the forefront of my mind. In hindsight, yes Im dumb... I know.lol

Any ideas? PLEASE!

You are not dumb. The relationship is not such that you have daily contact with her and her friends, so how likely are you to know her birthday? Not very. You are just going to have to ask her. Unless you do know someone that knows her well enough to tell you her b-day. Ask her. Not asking is dumb.

Just ask her. Tell her you feel really bad for not remembering. I'm sure she won't be mad. Can you ask one of her friends or co-workers? Does she have a calender she writes stuff down on. Also, ask her what astrological sign she is (if that wouldn't offend her and is OK with you) . At least then, you'll know within a month or so, maybe it will come back to you. I would just ask her, I'm sure she'll understand.