Went to see the urologist don't think what he did was right
Ok so I have been having reoccuring UTIs for a while now 5 months and so I was sent to a urologist. I did not like him because he was very unprofessional and talked about my sex life like it was a joke even though it was the first time I met him. So I got a second referral for an appointment. I arrive at the office and all seems well. I meet the doctor and he is like 80 years old. He did not know his medical terminology and asked me if I had any sexual "you know in the abdomen" thing. At this point I guessed and asked if he meant an STD and he said yeah yeah that's it. So then I tell him I didn't like the other urologist because they were trying to do invasive things to me.
So then he says that he needs to do a physical exam. So I've been to 2 urologists and never have I ever had to have a physical exam. So I figure that he wants to feel my kidneys and tummy. I get into the room and he tells me to pull my pants to my knees and at this point I'm feeling uncomfortable because there is no nurse either. He has me lie back and I spread my legs. He says he needs to check for any abnormalities. This is where my concern comes in. He inserts his finger into my vagina, and feels around. Now don't get me wrong, but I'm pretty sure a urologist deals with your bladder, kidneys, and urethra and NOT the vagina. The next thing I know he is inserting these metal curved rods up my urethra. I have had many things done before but the pain I experienced from this was so unbelievable that I literally started crying. I had no warning, nor did I even know what he was doing. At the end, he again stuck his finger into my vagina and felt around and then told me to put on my pants. I literally could not walk after this, and was concerned. He told me it would go away after a day. I've been scouring the net to find the exam that he did but come up empty handed. Am I wrong in thinking that I have been violated? I feel terrible about what happened and am having trouble peeing and there is blood. Is this a normal procedure? SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!!