Originally Posted by froggy7
Ashbrae, I am going to suggest that you take a step back and really consider the relationship that you are in. This is your boyfriend's cat, right? And it sounds to me like you are not a "cat person". The others have given you advice about how to handle the hairballs. But if you try and keep the cat off all the furniture, you are probably going to run into problems with the boyfriend. (You would with me, if the sexes were reversed.) Most people who have cats enjoy snuggling up with them on the couch, bed, etc. You may be able to train the cat to stay off the table and counters, but getting it to stay off all the furniture is really not going to work too well. If you push this issue, you are quite likely to force your boyfriend to choose between you and the cat, and you may not win that fight. So it may be time to ask yourself if this is really the relationship you want to be in, and whether you can learn to love (or at least tolerate) the cat as well as the guy.