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  • Oct 24, 2007, 10:55 PM
    campem2
    Just curious.about bicurious
    Im a guy, and my friend, who is a girl(we're both 18), said that EVERY girl mastubates. I disagree, because we go to the same church and I can't believe that some girls are masturbating. I know that some may(and probably do) but I don't really think most do. She ALSO said that most all girls "practice" on each other. I know that's a college cliché but she's talking about high school girls. I don't really see that. She said girls will be like "oh, are my boobs big? they seem so small!" and the other girl will be like "hmm, let me see" and shell feel her boob. Or one of the girls will be like "ive never kissed" and then they'll start making out. I just don't buy this. I know it happens but... I really don't see MOST girls doing this. I have an older sister... and I don't think she would ever do anything like this.
  • Oct 25, 2007, 12:34 AM
    templelane
    She's leading you on, that doesn't happen. I went to an all girls school and have loads of lesbian friends and no we don't just randomly make out.

    Ahh just read you're a guy. She is probably trying to chat you up. She is proabably trying to get you 'hot under the colllar' so to speak! I have an all girls strip poker story for a similar effect.

    Does she give you any other signs of liking you?

    Oh and as for the masturbation thing I don't know, can't say I've ever asked every girl I've met.
  • Oct 25, 2007, 12:45 AM
    brookeleigh
    Yah that doesn't just happen in high school, I agree with above. She is leading you on. But you I think most girls masterbate or have don't it before.
  • Oct 25, 2007, 03:30 PM
    Xrayman
    As soon as you bring up church-you lost me. I think you need to really think things through clearly. You are being duped-move on.

    Some facts for you.

    Church activity does not preclude sexuality sex or masturbation.
    Girls don't practise on each other-DO you as a boy??
    Girls may ask about their boobs-but I doubt that they touch each other on their breasts unless they are in a relationshp with the other girl-in that case they are lesbians.

    Move on. She is attempting to feed you some BS.
  • Oct 25, 2007, 03:54 PM
    campem2
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Xrayman
    As soon as you bring up church-you lost me. I think you need to really think things through clearly. you are being duped-move on.

    some facts for you.

    church activity does not preclude sexuality sex or masturbation.
    girls don't practise on each other-DO you as a boy???
    girls may ask about their boobs-but I doubt that they touch each other on their breasts unless they are in a relationshp with the other girl-in that case they are lesbians.

    move on. she is attempting to feed you some BS.

    OK so because we go to church someone can't have sexuality? And I'm just saying what she was saying. And were friends so I seriously think she's just wrong and she really does think these things... not duping me, at least not on purpose. But thanks for the answers, I just wondered. Basically what I told her was that I think more boys masturbate then girls and she said that all girls masturbate at least once, which I didn't believe.
  • Oct 25, 2007, 04:56 PM
    shygrneyzs
    No, all girls do not masturbate at least once. To make statement a true statement, you would have to interview ALL the girls - have you or your friend done that? No, I did not think so. Just because someone says "all the girls do this..." - it sounds like something a teen says to their parents when they want to do something that maybe one or two others are doing. So what she told you is a fallacy.

    Now about the girls making out with each other and what amounts to playing doctor with each other? Oh no. Not ALL the girls do that either. You have never been a girl. It does not happen like that for all girls. While it could be true for some girls, it is wrong to generalize and say all do this.

    She really got you going, didn't she? And she knows it too. What a tease!
  • Oct 25, 2007, 05:53 PM
    campem2
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by shygrneyzs
    No, all girls do not masturbate at least once. To make statement a true statement, you would have to interview ALL the girls - have you or your friend done that? No, I did not think so. Just because someone says "all the girls do this..." - it sounds like something a teen says to their parents when they want to do something that maybe one or two others are doing. So what she told you is a fallacy.

    Now about the girls making out with each other and what amounts to playing doctor with each other? Oh no. Not ALL the girls do that either. You have never been a girl. It does not happen like that for all girls. While it could be true for some girls, it is wrong to generalize and say all do this.

    She really got you going, didn't she? And she knows it too. What a tease!

    no. I mean not really. I didn't believe her. I was just seeing what other people say. I knew she was wrong.. I don't really know why she would say that but I just wanted to kind of wanted to see what other people say. Ok, she might not have meant ALL. I mean I'm sure she didn't mean all billions of girls around the world. I'm guessing she meant most girls that one would know. But anyway, I thought I would post the question to see what others thought. Thanks for all the posts though.

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