I have a really good friend that is a girl. I like her a lot but she has a boyfriend. It is kind of akward because I dated before but 2 years ago and they like kiss and stuff when I'm right there. I also am really good friends with the guys. I don't know how to tell her I like her without telling her boyfriend or getting it even more akward. I don't want to lose her as a friend. :confused:

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Originally Posted by Aplayer32

I have a really good friend that is a girl. I like her a lot but she has a boyfriend. It is kind of akward because I dated before but 2 years ago and they like kiss and stuff when I'm right there. I also am really good friends with the guys. I dont know how to tell her I like her without telling her boyfriend or getting it even more akward. I dont want to lose her as a friend. :confused:

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If she's a good friend and she's happy right now with the guy she is with I would leave it alone... you don't want to hurt the friendship you have with her or the guys so it's not worth it in the end to say anything. And who knows, maybe this relationship won't last long and you can tell her then... my advice... don't say anything... wait till she's single again and then let her know how you feel.

Well my friend this is a complicated situation that almost every guy has went through. I have developed a method of "turning the tables" on a situation like this. We all know that once you've lost the affection of a girl its not so easily gotten back. Guys are so much more on the fence. The thing you could do is: Be everything her boyfriend isn't. Watch for what he does that annoyes her. Look for ways that he emotionally disconnects himself from her and plug yourself into that outlet. Be careful though if your too sensitive she'll put you into the "friend" category for good. Just remember you've got the upper hand over him. She lets her guard down because you aren't a threat. Take advantage of that. Good luch buddy.