Bachelors partys and strippers.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now, and we are planning on getting married November of 2008. I know that's a long time away, but I asked him what he was planning to do at his bachelors party, I asked if he was going to go to a strip club. He said yes and said that strip clubs or getting a stripper is tradition and he is going to do it with his friends. I know this is a long way away, but the thought of him having a half naked or naked woman dancing on his lap hurts me so bad. He said its just like the last night out with the guys before his marriage and said that he loves me. I told him how I felt about it, but he didn't really say much about it. I feel like if he gets a stripper or goes to a strip club I'm not going to want anything to do with him. Am I out of place? I might feel so strongly about this because my parents just got divorced last year because my dad cheated on my mom. I know my boyfriend won't cheat on me, I know he won't. But I feel like giong to a strip club when you are iin a relationship is cheating. I feel like cheating can be a variety of things, and this is one. I just want to know if I am out of place thinking this before I tell him really how I feel about this.