Hi,
I am married for two years and have no children yet. Is it normal to reach an orgasm by fingering? I've never been able to reach an orgasm through penetration till now. My husband makes it a point to finger me and reach my orgasm, but is this safe since we are planning for a kid? Is it important to reach an orgasm to conceive? Also,please suggest some tips to follow during our intercourse to conceive. I find people saying to elevate yourself from your hips or lift your legs parallel to the wall for half an hour and more, is this to be followed? Please help me

Don't know about the positions, but yes, most women need stimulation and not just penetration. As far as conception goes, you don't need orgasm to conceive. The best thing is to just relax and enjoy the process. If you're stressed out, you could be preventing your body from working right.

Of course the man needs to orgasm to produce sperm. A woman's orgasm is benefiacial to the conception process in that the contractions help the sperm flow to the uterus.