Okay, I have not been able to talk about this to anyone except for my sister and her advice didn't help. I recently found out that my husband's best friend who is also my bestfriend's husband is attracted to me. I have been attracted to him for at least the past year and we admitted to one another that we are tempted by each other. Now I can't get the idea out of my head that I want him desperately. We both love our spouses and our children all play together, we are not willing to risk anything but there is still the fact that we want to get it on. Its out there and it's driving me crazy. My sister said do him and move on, you will have that one time and then you will be able to see that the fantasy is way better than the complications of reality. I don't think either of us trust that we could keep the secret, one of us is bound to have a moment of morality and feel the need to "come clean" to a spouse. So that's it, I don't think anything will happen but I think about it so much I don't know what to do with myself, I bide my time until I see him again just because we always kiss hello and goodbye. Someone please help I'm going insane.